What bit me in my sleep?

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mosPublished June 21, 2022 • Updated February 3, 2026
Reviewed by Julie Miller, BA in Language Arts, Editorial Lead, Dr. Killigan’s

TL;DR: Spider bites in bed are rare. Most unexplained bites that appear overnight are caused by bed bugs, fleas or mosquitoes. Clusters or lines of bites usually indicate bed bugs or fleas, while single bites are more often caused by mosquitoes. The number of bites, where they appear and how quickly symptoms show up are the clearest clues to what bit you in your sleep.

Waking up with itchy red bumps is unsettling—especially when you can’t tell what caused them. Use the quick clues below to narrow it down fast.

Quick clues to identify what bit you

How many bites?
Single, isolated bites are most often caused by mosquitoes. Multiple bites that appear in clusters or straight lines are usually caused by bed bugs or fleas.

Where are they? 
Bites on exposed skin—such as the face, neck, arms or legs—are commonly caused by mosquitoes or bed bugs. Flea bites tend to show up on the ankles, lower legs or around the waist. 

Do they form a pattern? 
Bed bug bites often appear in rows or zigzag patterns. Flea bites usually appear in small clusters. Random, isolated bites are more often mosquitoes.

How fast did it show up? 
Mosquito bites usually itch within minutes or hours. Flea bites often trigger an immediate reaction. Bed bug bites may take hours or even days to become red and itchy.

What else do you see? 
Dark specks or stains on sheets and mattress seams often indicate bed bugs. Small jumping insects or bite marks on pets often point to fleas. Spider webs can be a sign spiders are nearby—but they don’t confirm spiders are biting you.

1. Did a spider bite me in my sleep? 

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Waking up with a mysterious mark often leads to one frightening thought: Did a spider bite me while I was sleeping? While spiders are a common scapegoat for nighttime bites, the reality is much less sinister.

Do spiders bite at night while you sleep?

The short answer: it’s extremely rare. Spiders don’t feed on human blood, so they aren’t “hunting” you in bed. When a bite happens, it’s usually defensive.

Why would a spider bite me in bed?

If you think you got bit by a spider in your sleep, it was likely a “wrong-place, wrong-time” accident, like:

  • Trapped in bedding: A spider gets caught between your skin and sheets.
  • Rolling over: You accidentally press it against your skin while turning over.
  • Hiding in clothing: A spider tucked into pajamas gets pinned against you.

How to prevent spider bites while sleeping

As noted, spider bites in bed are uncommon—but if you want extra peace of mind, a few small habits can make your bedroom less inviting for wandering spiders.

  • Shake out stored bedding (guest room quilts, extra blankets, throws).
  • Keep sheets and bed skirts off the floor. If fabric touches the ground, it can act like a “bridge.”
  • Reduce clutter near the bed, especially clothing piles, boxes or items under the frame.
  • Move the bed slightly away from the wall and keep pillows from resting against it.
  • Seal easy entry points (gaps at baseboards, window trim and around cords or pipes).
  • Check what comes into bed—laundry baskets, folded clothes and blankets that sat on the floor.

What does a spider bite look like?

Spider bites can have a few telltale traits:

  • Single bite: Spiders rarely bite multiple times; you will usually find only one sore. 
  • Two puncture marks: Spiders have two fangs, which can leave tiny, side-by-side punctures. These are often microscopic and may require a bright light or magnifying glass to see.  
  • Mild symptoms: Most bites result in localized redness, slight swelling and a small, itchy or painful lump. 
  • Delayed reaction: Many spider bites are painless at first, with itching or redness developing hours later.

If you’re waking up with multiple bites or new marks night after night, it’s unlikely a spider is the cause. Bed bugs and fleas are much more common causes of overnight bites and often leave clusters or lines. Next, here’s how to tell if bed bugs are the real culprit.

2. Could it be bed bugs?

bed bug on green fabric

If your bites don’t match a rare, accidental spider bite, bed bugs are one of the most common causes of overnight bites.

What do bed bug bites look like?

Bed bug bites often have a distinct "signature":

  • The "breakfast, lunch and dinner" pattern: Bites often appear in a straight line or a cluster of three or more marks.
  • Raised, red welts: They typically look like small, flat or raised red bumps that become intensely itchy.
  • Delayed appearance: You won't feel the bite when it happens. It can take anywhere from a few hours to several days for the welts to actually appear on the skin.
  • Common locations: They target exposed skin while you sleep, often appearing on the neck, face, arms and hands. 

Tip: If your bites are concentrated in skin folds—like armpits, behind the knees or the inner thigh—you may be dealing with fleas or another biting pest rather than bed bugs.

How to identify a bed bug

Bed bugs are often mistaken for small beetles or other household bugs, so these traits can help you confirm what you’re seeing.

  • Shape: They are flat and oval-shaped, roughly the size of an apple seed. 
  • Color: Usually a reddish-brown. If they have recently fed, they appear more elongated and "balloon-like."
  • Behavior: They are elusive and excellent at hiding in cracks and crevices during the day, only emerging an hour or two before sunrise to feed. 

Signs of bed bugs in your bed

Because bed bugs are so small and hide so well, you often find evidence before you find the bug itself. Check your mattress seams and sheets for:

  • Dark, rusty stains: Look for tiny dark spots (fecal matter) on your sheets or mattress. These are actually dried, digested blood. 
  • Exoskeletons: You may find translucent "skins" that young bed bugs shed as they grow. 
  • A sweet, musty odor: In cases of a larger infestation, you may notice a distinct, sickly-sweet smell similar to overripe berries.

3. Could it be fleas?

Fleas can bite overnight—especially if pets share your bed or spend time in the bedroom.

What fleas look like

Fleas are tiny—about the size of the tip of a ballpoint pen. They’re flat, wingless insects that range from brown to reddish-brown. Their bodies are built to move quickly through fur or hair.

common flea

What flea bites look like

Flea bites often appear as small red bumps. Some people notice a darker center or a faint "halo" around the bite. Bites commonly show up in clusters or small lines (often 3–4 bites).

Most common bite locations:

  • Ankles and lower legs
  • Around the waist
  • Warm “crease” areas (behind knees, inside elbows, armpits)

Flea bites vs. bed bug bites

If you’re trying to decide between fleas and bed bugs, these clues can help:

Flea bites usually: 

  • Appear as small red bumps (often in groups of 3–4)
  • Show up on the lower body, especially ankles and lower legs
  • Cluster in warm, tight areas (waistband, knee/elbow bends)
  • Start itching quickly, often within minutes or hours

Bed bug bites usually: 

  • Appear in a row, zigzag or tight cluster on exposed skin
  • Show up more on the upper body (face, neck, arms)
  • You may not feel the bite at the time
  • Itching and redness may not show up until hours or days later

Why flea bites itch

When a flea bites, it injects a small amount of saliva that helps it feed. Your immune system treats that saliva like an irritant and releases histamine. That’s what drives the itching, redness and swelling.

Can fleas bite you at night?

Yes. Fleas prefer animal hosts, but they’ll bite people too—especially when pets, pet bedding or carpets in the bedroom are involved.

How to check for fleas fast

  • Check ankles/lower legs for clustered bites (often 3–4 close together).
  • Inspect pet bedding and favorite lounging spots, even outside the bedroom, for tiny black specks (“flea dirt”).
  • Try the white-sock test on carpets—fleas are easier to spot against light fabric.
  • Watch for persistent scratching in pets, especially around the neck, tail base and belly.

4. Could it be chiggers?

Chigger bites are often picked up outdoors—but they can look a lot like “mystery bites” the next morning.

chiggers

What chiggers look like

Chiggers (sometimes called “red bugs”) are extremely small—about 1/50th of an inch—and usually hard to see without a magnifying glass. When they cluster, their reddish color can make them slightly easier to spot. After feeding, they may look more yellowish.

What chigger bites look like

Chigger bites often show up in groups and can appear in random spots, though they commonly affect the legs. Because chiggers can stay attached for a while, bites may seem to “build” in the same general area.

Chigger bites can cause:

  • An itchy, red welt 
  • Swelling and irritation 
  • Bumps that may resemble small hives, pimples or blisters 
  • Itching that can intensify over a few days

Do chiggers burrow into your skin? 

No. Chiggers don’t burrow into your skin and they don’t drink blood. Their saliva triggers your skin’s immune response, which causes swelling and itching. It also breaks down skin cells near the bite so they can feed. As the area swells, the bite can look like something is “embedded,” but that’s just inflammation—not a chigger under the skin. Chiggers typically fall off after a few days.

Evidence of chiggers

Unlike bed bugs and fleas, chiggers usually leave no visible evidence in your bed or home.

Can chiggers bite you in bed?

It can happen, but it’s more often linked to warm-month outdoor exposure like yard work, hiking, camping or sleeping outside.

5. Could it be mosquitoes?

Mosquito bites often start itching quickly.

mosquito

What mosquitoes look like

Mosquitoes are small, slender insects with long legs, narrow wings and a long, needle-like mouthpart (proboscis). They’re often gray or brown and can look a bit like tiny flying “gnats” up close.

What mosquito bites look like

Mosquito bites are usually isolated and appear randomly on exposed skin, such as the face, neck, arms and legs. Bites often look like puffy, reddish bumps that can show up within minutes. Over the next day, they may darken slightly.

Why mosquito bites itch

Mosquitoes inject saliva when they bite. Your body reacts by releasing histamine, which can cause itching, redness and swelling.

Can mosquitoes bite you in your sleep?

Yes. Many mosquito species are most active at dusk and overnight. If mosquitoes are indoors, they can bite while you sleep—especially on exposed skin.

Evidence of mosquitoes

Mosquitoes don’t leave stains or droppings like bed bugs or fleas. Common clues include:

  • A high-pitched buzzing near your ears
  • Random bites on exposed areas
  • Open windows, torn screens or standing water nearby

Final word on what bit me in my sleep

If you’re waking up with bites, the goal is simple: identify the pattern, look for evidence and stop the source. If fleas are involved, focus on pets, pet bedding and soft surfaces. If bed bugs are likely, inspect mattress seams and the bed frame closely. And if mosquitoes are the culprit, check screens and entry points.

If you want extra support restoring Confidence, Peace and Control, Dr. Killigan’s plant-powered pest solutions can help when used as directed.

Small steps, used consistently, add up. Start with the clues above, confirm what you’re dealing with and choose the support that fits your home and routine.

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Content Strategist & Eco-Living Advocate

Julie Miller

Julie is Dr. Killigan’s in-house writer and content strategist with a passion for science-backed, natural living. She holds a degree in Language Arts and brings over a decade of writing experience to the team. At Dr. Killigan’s, she works closely with the product and customer experience teams to ensure every article delivers accurate, helpful and trustworthy information. When she’s not writing, Julie is tending her vast array of indoor plants, crafting homemade moisturizers or fermenting carrots with her children.

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